We love our kids. But sometimes you need to just smile at the ridiculousness that can be parenthood. Revel in the good and laugh off the “well that didn’t go how I thought it would”—right? Share these “honest” ecards with your friends (or significant others), and together we can all laugh at the ups and downs of being a parent. Even if it’s at 3 a.m. while you wait for your 4 year old to fall back asleep.